Mostly say hooray for our side

I happen to think it’s almost always a mistake to find/seek/put too much stock in any external validation, be it direct or indirect.  That should not be interpreted to mean, however, that it doesn’t suck to be invalidated.  It’s easier to decline validation than it is to get up and brush yourself off and “keep [...]

Alfie goes walkabout

Alfie’s been chomping at the bit to go all the way outside, not just onto the deck and yesterday evening, I allowed him a bit of an “expotition” into the great wild beyond of my chaotic backyard.
I’m proceeding with caution before he goes solo. Yeah, I know he’s a cat and has loads of [...]